Maharshi talks

"With regard to the question concerning departed souls: So long as a man identifies himself with his gross body, the thought materialized as gross manifestations must be real to him. Because his body is imagined to have originated from another physical being, the other exists as truly as his own body. Having existed here once it certainly survives death, because the offspring is still here and feels he has been born from the other. Under these circumstances the other world is true; and the departed souls are benefited by the prayers offered for them. On the other hand, considered in a different way, the One Reality is the Self from whom has sprung the ego, which contains within itself the seeds of predispositions acquired in previous births. The Self illumines the ego, the predispositions, and also the gross senses, whereupon the predispositions appear to the senses to have materialized as the universe, and become perceptible to the ego, the reflection of the Self. The ego identifies itself with the body and so loses sight of the Self, and the result of this inadvertence is dark ignorance and the misery of the present life. The fact of the ego rising from the Self and forgetting it is birth. So, it may be said that the birth of the individual has killed the mother. The present desire to regain one’s mother is in reality the desire to regain the Self, which is the same as realizing oneself, or the death of the ego; this is surrender unto mother, so she may live eternally.

Maharshi then red out from the Tamil version of Yoga Vesishta the story of Deerga Tapasi who had two sons, Puny and Papa. After the death of the parents, the younger one mourned the loss and the elder brother counciled him as follows:
“Why do you mourn the lose of our parents? I shall tell you where they are, they are only within ourselves and ourselves. For the life current has passed through innumerous incarnations, births and deaths, pleasures and pains, etc., just as the water current in a river flows over rocks, pits, sands, elevations and depressions on its way, but still the current is unaffected. The pleasures and pains, births and deaths, are like undulations on the surface of seeming water in the mirage of the ego. The only reality is the Self from where the ego appears, and run's through thought’s which manifest themselves as the universe and in which the others and fathers, friends and relatives appear and disappear. They are nothing but manifestations of the Self, so that one’s parents are not outside the Self. So there is no reason to mourn. Learn it, realize it and be happy.”

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